What is Family Mediation?

Family mediation is a process to help couples who are separating or divorcing reach agreement on any issues which are important to them. It is used mainly to resolve issues regarding the arrangements for the children, and property and financial matters, but it can be used to discuss other issues, such as the arrangements for separation; who will issue the divorce proceedings; whether it will be a sole or joint application and many other matters.

It is an alternative to the traditional legal process where there is typically correspondence between solicitors and, if an agreement cannot be reached, one party makes an application to the Court.

The couple are provided with a safe, unpressured environment in which they can discuss the way forward in a calm, constructive and structured way. The interests of any children are always at the forefront of the discussions.

Mediation is a voluntary process, so couples can choose to use the service, but no individual would be forced to attend if they did not want to.

What is the Mediator’s Role?

The mediator’s role is to help the couple to communicate with each other and reach their own decisions for the future. The mediator aims to help both partners equally. The mediator is impartial and does not make judgements or express opinions about who is right or wrong.

The mediator does not direct the couple down a path that the mediator feels is right, but lets the couple choose their own solutions.

The mediator will let the couple know whether what they are proposing is likely to be approved by a judge.

Mediation sessions may take place in person in offices or remotely using Video Conferencing Platforms.